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Birger says the imbalance is also exacerbated by New York’s large population of gay males.
Some 9 to 12 percent of men in Manhattan are gay, according to Gary Gates, a demographics expert at UCLA’s Williams Institute.
The rejection was devastating until a bright light named Stephanie joined my high school as a freshman.